4 Things I Love About the Netherlands…

…and think we should adopt in our culture.

1. Gezelligheid

To quote Lonely Planet:

“This particularly Dutch quality is one of the best reasons to visit Amsterdam. It’s variously translated as snug, friendly, cosy, informal, companionable and convivial, but gezellligheid – the state of being gezellig – is something more easily experienced than defined. There’s a sense of time stopping, an intimacy of the here and now that leaves all your troubles behind, at least until tomorrow. You can get that warm and fuzzy feeling in many places and situations:

  • while nursing a brew with friends
  • over coffee and cake with neighbors (the stoop will do)
  • lingering after a meal ….”

(p. 186, Amsterdam City Guide 7th ed., 2010)

It’s a wonderfully warm, relaxed way to live life, that is quintessentially Dutch. I’m finding it difficult to do justice to in my stories, but it’s fun trying. Maybe, I need to go back and do more research:)

I saw gezelligheid everywhere I saw people interacting. At first, I was shocked at how different the atmosphere is in restaurants. No one rushes you with a check,  quiet chatter and laughter fills the air, and the warm relaxed feeling of enjoying the moment is as much a part of the experience as the food you eat. Yes, I think I need to take more notes.

2. Dutch Kissing

They kiss a lot! When Dutch people greet friends and family they kiss each other three times (alternating cheeks) and hug. You end up feeling very kissed. The open expression of caring leaves you feeling warm and fuzzy. It’s nice.

3. Foot Power

People walk and ride their bicycles everywhere. It’s a flat country after all, and the people are fit and active.

4. Dutch Apple Pie

is worth the plane ticket to Holland. It oozes butter, freshly baked apples, and crisp pastry. Yum.

 

Author: Jo-Ann Carson

Jo-Ann Carson writes a saucy mix of fantasy, adventure and romance. Her latest stories are in the Gambling Ghosts Series: A Highland Ghost for Christmas, A Viking Ghost for Valentine’s Day, Confessions of a Pirate Ghost and The Biker Ghost Meets his Match. An anthology of the novellas will be coming out this summer. Currently she is working on Midnight Magic, A Ghost & Abby Mystery, the first book in a spin-off series from her Viking ghost story. Jo-Ann loves watching sunrises, playing Mah Jong and drinking good coffee. You can chat with her on social media: You can find all her links on her website - http://jo-anncarson.com

6 thoughts on “4 Things I Love About the Netherlands…”

  1. It’s so odd to read your comments about Amsterdam. Your take is very different than someone I just heard talking about the place. Their comment had to do with the availability of drugs. Why they wouldn’t have mentioned the apple pie, I can’t immagine. Awesome pic. Love the concept of the more laid back way of living. Certainly not what we find in most large US cities where we’re all about do more faster, faster. Thanks for the post and glad you had this experience.

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    1. Hi Marsha
      Yes, I agree Amsterdam is many things to many people. I even heard Nederlanders outside the city refer to it as the Sodom and Gomorrah of Holland. For me, staying in Amsterdam for a month was a wonderful experience. The art galleries and museums are magnificent and the culture is warm and embracing. I’m using it as my setting because it intrigues me, how people can be so much the same, and yet so different.
      Happy writing
      Jo-Ann

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  2. I love Amsterdam. It’s a beautiful, laid-back city and a great place to get away from it all. The canals, the sidestreets, river cruises and coffee houses guarantee a relaxing time. I too love the way everyone cycles. It’s one of my favourite European cities. I haven’t tried their apple pie, but definitely will next time I visit.

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